Wednesday 5 December 2012

Word "Mehr" or "Dowery!



The Quran mentions. several times in context with the Marital Relationship ... a Marital Gift..given from Husband to Wife..in Islam..which is regarded as Mehr ...in general....Consult Dictionary for social security reasons.

This word should NOT be mistaken for the Dowery Tradition in South Asia...where 'Jahez' is considered a compulsoray portion of the Marital ceremony, and is demanded from Husband...and given to the Wife...at wedding, by the family of the wife!


[4:24] And forbidden to you are married women, except such as your right hands possess. This has ALLAH enjoined on you. And allowed to you are those beyond that, that you may seek them by means of your property, marrying them properly and not committing fornication. And for the benefit you receive from them, give them their dowries, as fixed, and there is no blame on you what you do by mutual agreement after the fixing of the dowry. Surely ALLAH is All-Knowing, Wise.

[2:236] It shall be no sin for you if you divorce women while you have not touched them, nor settle for them a dowry. But provide for them - the rich man according to his means and the poor man according to his need - a provision in a becoming manner. This is an obligation upon the virtuous.

[2:237] And if you divorce them before you have touched them, but have settled upon them a dowry, then half of what you have settled shall be due from you, unless they remit, or he, in whose hands is the tie of marriage, should remit. And that you should remit is nearer to righteousness. And do not forget to do good to one another. Surely ALLAH sees what you do.









Word NIKAH!



Nikah is an Islamic Marital bond...between a Man and a Woman

Consult Dictionary

These are the  few places where the Quran uses the verb "Marry"....

Which  mean "Marry with them" And/Or "Marry them with others"

One has to be thoughtful concerning these meanings...

4:3  ,4:22, 4:25  ,2:221 and....24:32  فَٱنكِحُو    لَا تَنكِحُواْ   فَٱنكِحُو   وَلَا تُنكِحُواْ    وَأَنكِحُواْ

when you study the concerning verses in corresponding posts. Thanks!

The General Order for Nikah..in Surah Al-Nisa (4:22-27)


(22) Forbidden unto you are your mothers, and your daughters, and your sisters, and your father's sisters, and your mother's sisters, and your brother's daughters and your sister's daughters, and your foster-mothers, and your foster-sisters, and your mothers-in-law, and your step-daughters who are under your protection (born) of your women unto whom ye have gone in - but if ye have not gone in unto them, then it is no sin for you (to marry their daughters) - and the wives of your sons who (spring) from your own loins. And (it is forbidden unto you) that ye should have two sisters together, except what hath already happened (of that nature) in the past. Lo! Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful. (23) And all married women (are forbidden? unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess. It is a decree of Allah for you. Lawful unto you are all beyond those mentioned, so that ye seek them with your wealth in honest wedlock, not debauchery. And those of whom ye seek content (by marrying them), give unto them their portions as a duty. And there is no sin for you in what ye do by mutual agreement after the duty (hath been done). Lo! Allah is ever Knower, Wise. (24) And whoso is not able to afford to marry free, believing women, let them marry from the believing maids whom your right hands possess. Allah knoweth best (concerning) your faith. Ye (proceed) one from another; so wed them by permission of their folk, and give unto them their portions in kindness, they being honest, not debauched nor of loose conduct. And if when they are honourably married they commit lewdness they shall incur the half of the punishment (prescribed) for free women (in that case). This is for him among you who feareth to commit sin. But to have patience would be better for you. Allah is Forgiving, Merciful. (25) Allah would explain to you and guide you by the examples of those who were before you, and would turn to you in mercy. Allah is Knower, Wise. (26) And Allah would turn to you in mercy; but those who follow vain desires would have you go tremendously astray. (27


Possessed by right hand =Slave women ..not Orphan women
Remember there's NO type of "Temporary Bond of Nikah" in mentioned in Quran.