Muslims who lack knowledge of the Quran or do not respect the divine words have invented their own ways to deal the issue of Divorce.
Many Muslims think that saying the word of "Divorce" three times, simultaneously, declares the ultimate Divorce.
This is contrary to the messege in Quran, because, after seriously deciding upon divorcing one has to WAIT.(2:226) The couple is blessed by the opportunity of Re-thinking and Re-counciling .(2:227)
She waits for a certain period to see if she is conceiving his child...or not! (2:228)
It can happen TWICE ONLY...
The THIRD TIME means, the Divorce is in effect.(2:229)
Now the wife is NOT HALAAL (Not-Permissible) for the husband and becomes a stranger.It is a genuine punishment!
She can only become permissible to this man again , if she happen to marry another man and the other man divorse her ,again...which is impossible practically...yet some Ignorant Muslims have invented the tradition of HALAAHA...to make their ex-wife, Halaal to them again. Which is an extremely insulting tradition.
Ayat 2:228 tells women has similar rights to men...yet men has a privilege
Ayat 2:229 tells that women can FREE herself by giving her Marital Gift (Mehr) back to her husband, she doesn't want to live with, anymore!
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